The kitchen.
Cooking is the other discipline I keep coming back to. Same shape as the range and the bushveld, really — you read the conditions, you stay patient, and you respect the thing in front of you. A hot pan asks the same honesty a long stalk does: pay attention, or it goes wrong quietly.
Most of what I make starts over fire, or wishes it did. It is how I feed the people at my table and how I switch the day off — hands busy, phone face-down, dinner coming together at its own pace. None of this is fine dining. It is the rotation that keeps a house fed and a week feeling human.
These are the recipes I actually return to — saved off a phone, cooked, adjusted, cooked again. I keep them here so they are easy to find the next time someone is hungry.
The mains
The plates a dinner is built around.
- Ranja Gosht
Slow-cooked — the kind of thing that fills a house with its smell before anyone's been called to eat.
YouTube - Flank Steak
Hot and fast, rested properly, sliced against the grain. The patience mostly lives in the rest.
YouTube - Grilled Chicken
The fire again. Marinate ahead, keep the heat honest, don't crowd the grate.
YouTube - Chicken Legs, Skin On
Skin rendered proper, so it snaps. The best part of the bird, and you know it.
YouTube - Chicken with Vegetables
The honest weeknight dinner — one pan, everything in it, on the table by seven.
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From the water
Fish and shellfish, cooked with a light hand.
- Shrimp Scampi
Garlic, butter, a little heat — done in the time it takes to boil the pasta.
YouTube - Fried Fish
Crisp outside, clean inside. Oil hot enough, and don't move it too soon.
YouTube - Iranian Fish Kabob
Carried over from another kitchen and another generation. Worth the effort every time.
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Quick on a weeknight
When the clock is short and the fridge is thin.
Sandwiches
Lunch, or the reward after a long cook.
Sides & salads
The quiet half of the plate.
- Potato Salad
Made the day before — always better on the second day.
YouTube - Tomato Salad
When the tomatoes are actually good, the job is to get out of their way.
NYT Cooking - Hash Browns & Poached Eggs
A slow Sunday plate. The egg does the sauce for you.
YouTube - Snap Pea & Green Bean Salad
Blanched bright and kept raw-crunchy. The orange–miso–ginger dressing does all the work here, so I keep it written down.
YouTubeThe dressing
- 2 garlic cloves
- ¼ tsp ginger
- ½ shallot
- 1 orange, juiced
- 1–1½ tbsp white miso paste
- 2–3 tbsp white vinegar
- Black pepper
- ¼–½ cup oil
Miso carries the depth — a splash of soy or Worcestershire stands in if that's what's on the shelf.
To drink
For when the grill's been running all afternoon.
Saved, cooked, adjusted, cooked again.
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